Ask your partner nasty questions about their desires and fantasies and tell them about your own as well.

When you’re barely past the first date with someone new, everything from where they grew up to their favorite sex position is a fascinating mystery to unravel about the other person. Once a couple has been together for years, though, they often think of their partner as less of a mystery, and more like a book that’s been read so many times, there are no surprises left.

However you never really know everything about someone else; that’s why it’s good to communicate and talk about these things. You don’t have to stop at regular questions; you can ask nasty questions or have conversations about their naughty side.

These questions are going to be very deep and intimate. You will get to know what ticks your partner, how to please them, turn them on, and what makes them happy. When you ask these nasty questions, it could help foster an environment of intimate sharing within your relationship.  

These naughty conversations are more than just a verbal foreplay idea. You will be surprised by your partner’s answers even if you’ve been married for decades. It is a great way to make your partner fall in love with you and themselves over and over again. Since we constantly change in a relationship, there’s always more to discover, especially in a long-term relationship.

The next time you are on a date, hanging out with your partner, or want to have fun with your partner, have the following conversations with them. These conversations are easy, relaxed, and a great way to become horny at the same time. And the best part is that your partner will actually open up to you and feel closer to you without feeling threatened by your questions at any point in time!

Here are 7 nasty questions to ask your partner to know their naughty side.  

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Did you have a crush or fantasize about me before we started dating? 

You always wanted to know how badly your partner wanted to be with you, right? This conversation makes for a fun, spicy conversation that can start a make-out session. It is also a great way to get your partner to talk about their sexual fantasies while using the dream as an excuse. This is a great question to ask to have an idea of how badly they wanted to hook up with you. 

What sexy outfit would you love to see me in?

If you have a fantasy about role-playing and cosplay, you could ask your partner this question to know if they feel the same way and how they would like you to dress during sexual roles. Once they tell you this, all you have to do is seduce or arouse them using the the sexy outfit they like. 

What should we do to make our sex life more exciting?

If you have a more predictable lifestyle, it’s time to talk about trying new things in bed. Get your partner to talk about their fantasies and what they would like to try out at least once. This might be a tricky question with a nervous partner who is struggling to open up. So tread carefully and if you feel they may not be open to taking the question and answer thing this far, maybe save this one for further down the line.

How do you feel about foreplay?

Is it a get it over as quick as you can and get to the main event type of thing? Or yes please, that’s the best bit. This is a great opener to talk to your partner about why they feel the way they feel and whether there’s anything, in particular, they might like to try.

Do you like it when I’m bold-and-sexy or coy-and-sexy?

Most people like it when their partner is dominating and takes control in bed, while others love it when their partner is shy and bashful. So, asking this nasty questions will help you know what your partner wants and what you want, and how you both can make it work. 

Who would you like to have a threesome with?

You could mention your friends or ask them to suggest someone from their friends. This  is one of the nasty questions would help them see that you are a wild card and not as shy or coy as you pretend to be on the outside. It would also let you know which of your friends your partner would love to get down with. Most people would never reveal this kind of thing to their partner when asked directly, even if they are very inquisitive about it. Use this question to know how adventurous your partner is.