There’s an entire men’s movement dedicated to figuring out how to get laid

Knowing how to get laid isn’t always easy, especially if charm and good looks don’t come naturally for you. As adults, we assume having sex will come easily, but that’s not always the case.

It is important to mention that there is not yet any consensus on what attracts women to men. Science has found dozens of factors, some major, some minor, but there is no overarching model that is agreed upon by everyone. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying to you. Many of these traits which determine attraction are completely out of our control: genetic make-up, physical features, testosterone levels, social perceptions, where a woman is on her ovulation cycle, etc. We can’t control these so there’s little reason to worry about them.

And then there are the traits which are within our control and belong to our lifestyle choices: our occupation, how we dress and groom ourselves, our health and fitness, our confidence, our lack of neediness, and our behavior.

Here are 8 ways men try using lifestyle to get laid.

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Build and Treat Your Social Circle

A big source of strength as a wealthy gamer is to build your social circle through events, parties, and fun times that you organize and host for your friends; and of course, for beautiful girls, hoping to get laid after the party.

Dress to Impress

You know how the song goes: “Girls goes crazy ‘bout a sharp-dressed man.” Few ladies want to be seen with a hobo, but don’t go around wearing a jackass’s tuxedo either. Women love men who understand fit, fabric and function – the core components of style. Men that wear the best clothes that complement their body type and highlight their individuality. It’s almost like they become the brand – since no one can rock those exact same clothes the way they do. And that’s why the women admire them.

Be in Control of Yourself

Your finances, your career, your personal life, your health – they all need to be considered and properly managed in order for a potential mate to get comfortable enough to have sex with you. Do you have goals in life? Are you prepared for change? Girls may not always admit this, but they’re usually wondering what it would be like to fall in love with you. Give them a good reason to say yes and get laid with you.

Have some achievements to speak of

This one might take some work, or at least a little bit of thought. Come up with some personal achievements you can more or less brag about. Don’t come across as cocky, just let the girl know that you have an interesting lifestyle. Women dig a man with the master plan, or at least some motivations to get one. Do you have any drive in your heart, any passion in your eyes? Women can usually pick up on that kind of thing, or lack thereof. Be the dude with your dreams burning from the inside out and she’ll want to jump on board and get laid with you.


Yet according to multiple studies, the vehicle a man owns reflects his image and has a strong effect on his perceived attractiveness and even the way he drives. Like it or not, the car you drive will have a direct impact on your image and your success with women. In fact women like men driving beautiful cars, but can really cars improve the possibility to get laid? Just try.

Walk your dog

All dogs are a capable of being man’s best friend, but some dogs can help you in more ways than others. We’re talking, of course, about sex. What we meant to say is that there are certain dog breeds that can help you get laid more often, like the Labrador. Women love dogs just as much as guys do, and women know guys who have dogs are responsible partners.

Chose the right music

Picking the right song to get it on to is an art form–one that can do wonders for your sex life and improve the chances to get laid. In fact, it can be the deciding factor between whether or not you’re getting laid tonight. Choose a tune that she’s totally feeling, and it’ll get her loose and in the mood.

Smell great

Smell is a very important sense when determining compatibility, so smelling great may mean the difference between “see you soon” or “goodbye forever”. Remember less is more when it comes to cologne and too much can be just as bad as none at all.  Your overall smell – body odor, cologne and breath. Your scent is an indication of how considerate you are of yourself and of others because being stinky, with body odor or assaulting people with your cologne will never get you laid.