Masturbation and orgasm have so many benefits for females. From lowering our stress levels to helping before the period and even making us happier and more self confident, sex toys are all about helping us to get there.
If there is an area of your body that you like stimulated, there will be a sex toy available to do just that! Picking the perfect sex toy can be difficult as there are so many different styles to choose from, but it all comes down to which part of the body it is you want to target and with who you want to play.

Here is a quick buying guide to the ideal sex toy to get different kinds of pleasure:

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Identify The Why

The first thing you have to do is look at why you want a fun sex toy. If it’s because of a problem you are having, you have to spell it out for yourself.If it’s because you love sexual exploration and are looking for exciting experiences – that’s great. Your fundamental reason for wanting a toy will tell you a lot about finding one. Here are some common whys:
• My husband and I are in a sexual rut and I want to reignite the desire between us
• My girlfriend is not sexually explorative and I want to change that with the right toy
• I would like to try something different
• I need to replace an ‘old favourite’ one

Whatever your personal ‘why’ might be, your chosen toy needs to meet that need and feelings.

Understand The Who

A big part of choosing your perfect sex toy is knowing who it is for. This will help you consider the right factors when making your final decision:

• The toy is for me
• The toy is for us as a couple
• The toy is for my significant other
• The toy is a gift for a friend

Think About The Where

Where you decide to buy a quality sex toy from is important. Regardless of what kind of sex toy you want it is always important to look at what that sex toy is made of. These are items you are going to use in your most intimate of areas and you don’t want to choose a sex toy that is harmful to your health. What your future new toy is made of is important for both your pleasure and your safety. You want to avoid sex toys made of toxic and porous materials. No need to seriously injure yourself in the name of seeking pleasure.

Research The What

Sex toys are not limited to just the vagina and the clitoris. While these are the two most popular areas for female sex toy use, there are all sorts of toys that you can try:


A dildo is one of the most popular sex toys for women, and much of its popularity comes down to the fact that it is so versatile. Dildos are non-vibrating toys that are used for penetration and internal massage. They can have an anatomical design or they can be non-anatomical. Dildo comes in many different dimension, choose the right one according to your needs.


A vibrator is an all-encompassing term for any sex toy that vibrates to stimulate erogenous zones of the body. Figuring out which is the best vibrator really comes down to which areas of the body you like to have stimulated. There are external styles that stimulate the clitoris and internal styles which massage the vagina and g-spot. If you want external and internal stimulation at the same time, there is also the rabbit vibrator. They come in many different dimension, choose the right one according to your needs.

Clitoral massager

A clitoral massager is one of the top female sex toys you can get when it comes to helping women achieve orgasm. There are all sorts of clitoral vibes available from the large and powerful wand vibrators to the much smaller bullet vibes. These bullets can be used alone or with a partner during sex too as they are small enough to not get in the way.

Butt plug

Butt plugs have seen a huge increase in popularity over the past few years as sex toys have become more mainstream. Butt plugs come in varying shapes and sizes and are designed to create a full feeling in the anus.

Nipple clamps

The nipple tends to be one of the erogenous zones of the body that is often overlooked by sex toy users. This is because nipple clamps are commonly associated with pleasure. There is huge variety of items, some of them are embellished with embroideries.

Consider The How-Much

The final step is a simple one – determine your budget. Generally speaking the amount you spend on a toy is directly related to his quality and the experience you will have playing with.