Going through a breakup is painful.
And just when you think you have survived a breakup, your ex may want to come back into the picture only to be heartbroken again when you discover these signs your ex just wants to sleep with you. Do they want to get back together? Do they miss you as much as you miss them?
In that situation, it’s understandable that your judgment can sometimes be a bit clouded by wishful thinking. Picturing a happy relationship together can overpower the fact that oftentimes, all an ex wants is to sleep with you again.
Of course, this can be really hurtful, especially if you’re in a situation where you think you have a second chance, only for them to leave right after they got what they wanted. To protect you from this, it’s important to understand the signs that an ex only wants to sleep with you, so that you can make a decision based on facts, not hopes.
Check out these signs your ex just wants to sleep with you to avoid holding onto someone who does not want to be with you.
He is in a committed relationship
If your ex makes a move on you while he is in a committed relationship or is already married, it is a sure sign your ex just wants to sleep with you. He has no intentions of committing to you or leaving his woman.
He’s unavailable when you want to meet up with him
When a guy is in love with you, he will enjoy spending time with you. But if he makes up excuses when you want to meet up with him, it is signs he does not love you. If he only wants to meet up with you when it is convenient for him, it is signs your ex just wants to sleep with you.
He quickly wants to jump to the bedroom
When your ex wants you back, he will try to impress you. He will also try to address those issues that led to a breakup. But if he seems quick to jump to bedroom activities without trying to impress you, it is a clear sign your ex just wants to sleep with you.
He messages you after seeing a sexy picture of you on social media
If your ex messages you after you have posted a sexy image of yourself on social media, it means his eyes are fascinated by what he saw. He is infatuated and wants to try his luck by reaching out to you. One thing you should know is that men are visual beings, if the image looks appealing, they are easily turned on. So you really want to be careful because he might be reaching out to you because he wants to sleep with you and not because he wants you back.
He does not want the relationship to be public
If he does not want people to know that you are back together, it is also another sign your ex just wants to sleep with you. Chances are that he is cheating with you and does not want the news to reach his current girlfriend or wife.
He does not want to define the relationship
If your ex does not state his intentions, or tell you straight that he wants you back or when you ask him questions about the future of the relationship, his response does not give you satisfaction, it is a sign he just wants to sleep with you.
He does not respond to some of your calls and texts
If your ex does not respond to some of your calls and texts, it is a sign he is not really interested in you. When a guy likes you, he will respond almost instantly or return your calls.
He only wants to meet up with you when he is in your neighbourhood
If a guy only contacts you when he is around your area, but the other times he is quiet, you’re just his booty call.He just wants you to service him when he is away from his steady girlfriend.
He’s told you he is not ready for a relationship
If your ex has told you that he wants to be with you but he’s not ready for a relationship, you should worry. It means he wants to sleep with you without being committed to you. It is his way of saying he only wants your body but not you.
Listen to what you truly need. After all of this info, you might be unsure what to do. Our biggest tip is to listen to what you truly need. Not what you need in that moment because you feel lonely, not what you need at 3am when you feel horny, but what your soul and heart truly need from you for the future.
When you approach the situation with that in mind, we promise, the answers will be clear as day!