There is no single formula or method when it comes to creating the absolute best “you” possible. However, your ability to create the best version of yourself starts at the same source: from within yourself. You are born with the ability to be a better version of yourself each and every day. Once you accept that you have the power to change yourself, you are ready to start creating a successful and amazing you.

Before you can be the finest version of yourself, you must first discover “YOU“; your “true essence“- the values, interests, and passions that define who you are in life and the world. When you discover who you are, you also need to recognize who you want to be. At this point, you get to make plans on how to become the finest version of yourself. After that, it’s left to you to take steady strides to get there.

Here some tips to become the best version of yourself.

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Let Go of Your Previous Identity

When you decide to become your best self, you must be willing to let go of your previous identity. This way, you’re essentially holding yourself to a higher standard. Indeed, uncertainty and apprehension about the unknown will make your “old self” fight this, but you must stand firm in your decision. Refuse to remain the same way you are, and embrace the possibilities of a “new” you.

Love Yourself

The journey to becoming the best version of yourself may involve some touchy subjects, and you may have to overcome some bad habits that you’d rather leave swept under the rug. Along the way, practice self-compassion and self-love for who you are—warts and all. Stop struggling with who you are and what you’ve become, and love yourself just as you are. This kind of self-love will only support your process of becoming the best version of yourself.

Be Present in Every Moment

You were put on this planet to connect with and share your talents with those around you. By not being present, you are not sharing your gift. Anytime you notice that you are distracted with other thoughts during an activity—your to-do list, your phone, the next event on your schedule—encourage your attention back to the moment you are in. This can go for anytime you find your mind is wandering or anytime your attention has drifted outside of the present moment.

Have Balance

Just like everything in life, take all things in moderation. If you kicked butt at a killer workout class and feel like you deserve to splurge, go ahead and treat yourself! If you worked a long day in the office, go home and spend time with your family and enjoy non–work-related activities. Don’t become too absorbed and invest all of your time into one thing. Over time, you will miss out on having a balance, and may lose relationships and connections with people. Keep in touch with those you love and spend quality time (be present) with them to became the best version of yourself.

Be Thankful for This Life

Take a look around you. Are you sitting in a coffee shop, scrolling through this article? Or are you at your kitchen table? Or lying in bed? Wherever you are at this exact second is a good place to be. Life is so amazing and we as humans are lucky to get to be a part of it. Feel gratitude, express it, and be thankful for each day you are given.

Prioritize

Choose people, activities, and things that make you happy. Get rid of the rest. Nothing is a greater waste of time than spending time with people or on things that make you miserable. Life is too short to get caught up in drama, poor decisions, and unhappy days. Your time is important and it is essential that you delegate it effectively.

Be Honest

Being honest with yourself and others will get you much further than by cheating and lying your way through life. Even if you are the only one who knows you lied, you have to live with your lies. Your life would be easier if you were honest from the start. Set honest goals. Don’t be unrealistic. Don’t set yourself up for failure and disappointment. Start small and build yourself up. To become a better version of yourself, work a little harder each and every day, and you will learn over time that you are capable of being honest with yourself.

Forgive

Holding on to problems, arguments, and mistakes of the past keep you from thriving and becoming the best version of yourself, not to mention creating poor mental health. The moment you forgive and let the negativity go, you are free. You may not be free immediately, but you are one step closer to personal growth and happiness. You won’t have to endure that pain any longer. Without this pain, you are able to invest your time and energy into the positive aspects of your life (your success) and become the best, genuine version of yourself you can be.